What If Your Cravings Aren’t the Problem… But a Message? Understanding Emotional Eating
- Gillian Scerri

- Aug 19
- 2 min read
Updated: Oct 2
You don’t need more willpower. You need to understand why you eat the way you do.
Cravings aren't a sign you're broken or out of control. They're often a message from your body or emotions trying to get your attention.
We call it emotional eating, but what if it’s really emotional coping?

It’s Not About Willpower, It’s About Self-Protection
You might reach for food when you’re not physically hungry because:
You’re overwhelmed and need comfort
You feel disconnected or lonely
You’re anxious, bored, or trying to avoid something deeper
You’ve always used food as a “safe” escape
Food gives us a quick hit of relief. That sugar rush or salty crunch can temporarily soothe the nervous system. But that comfort fades, and the root cause stays.
Cravings Are Signals, Not the Enemy
Instead of fighting the craving, pause and ask:
💭 “What am I really hungry for right now?”
💭 “What is my body trying to protect me from?”
Your craving might be asking for:
Rest, not sugar
Connection, not chips
Safety, not another serving
Emotional Eating Is Not a Failure
Emotional eating is a coping tool, often one you’ve learned over years (sometimes since childhood). It may have served a purpose in the past, but it’s not your only option.
As you learn to meet your emotional needs in other ways, through connection, rest, expression, movement, or mindfulness, food loses its emotional power over you.
You Don’t Need to Fix Yourself, Just Listen to Yourself
This work isn’t about being stricter. It’s about being more compassionate, more self-aware, and more connected to your real needs.
Want Help Building a More Peaceful Relationship with Food?
If you're tired of food being your only coping mechanism, you're not alone, and you don’t have to figure it all out yourself.
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